Why we're going to win the Battle at Bristol

I debated long and hard whether to post this or not, and after a week of thinking about it, I decided it was something i had to do.

I was watching the time lapse of the installation of the field for the battle at Bristol, and I noticed something that absolutely floored me. On the track, or on the service road around it, there's enormous sponsor logos painted on the tarmac.....(i tried to embed a picture, but I'm having trouble capturing a screen shot of it). Anyway, one of the sponsor logos on the track is UNOH, which is the University of Northwest Ohio, primarily a VoTech college, which my son Tyler was accepted to, and was to begin attending in the fall of 2014.

That's me and Tyler at the Pittsburgh game in 2012. As some of you know, we lost Tyler in a horrific truck accident April of 2014. What none of you know, was that he died a couple of miles from home, just hours after returning from a trip to UNOH for additional scholarship testing.

You may notice that Tyler has really long hair in this photo. He often took a lot of grief for it - called a hippie, or a girl, or things like that, and he never complained or gave anybody shit about it, but what almost nobody but his immediate family knew was that he grew his hair to donate it to Locks of Love to make wigs for cancer patients. 3 times he donated over 12" of hair after the age of 13 or so. Ironically, this gesture of his always reminds me of something we all know - Ut Prosim.

My wife, and I, and my daughter have made great progress in dealing with the loss of Tyler over the last 2-1/2 years; it is something we will be working on for the rest of our lives; and at least for me, just having TKP to come lose myself in is something I'll always appreciate.

So we've got an angel on the sidelines for the Battle at Bristol, so to speak, represented in 20 foot tall letters that say UNOH. I'm not sure if it's our side or not, but I don't care, because Tyler will be there screaming hello to me, my wife, and our daughter when we see that logo on TV.

I'll ask you all to hoist a beer or a bourbon in Ty's memory when you see that logo while we're beating the living shit out of Tennessee, and I wish all of you safe and happy travels for you and your families to Bristol and beyond.

EDIT: I forgot to give serious props to UNOH. They not only had an excellent Diesel Tech program which Tyler was to attend, but the president also presented us with a posthumous degree for Tyler, which he had no doubt Tyler would have earned, and also established a yearly scholarship in his name for a deserving student from Tyler's local school who wishes to attend UNOH

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Thanks for sharing good sir, my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I am a father of 4, all young, and cannot imagine losing one. I hope Tyler's spirit and memories flex out during the game, I'll certainly be looking for that logo. Thanks again for sharing, Go Hokies!

If it ain't orange, it better be maroon...and if it ain't maroon, it better be soon!

Thanks for sharing, I'm sorry for your families lose.

Wet stuff on the red stuff.

Join us in the Key Players Club

Felt something different in the air while reading this post! I'll be searching for that logo and will think of you and your family! Go Hokies.

Thank you for sharing this deeply personal story. I know it could not have been easy.

Here's your screenshot.

There's Tyler, just to the right. He'll be watching the Hokies that night, I'm sure. I'll toast to him next Saturday, you can count on it.

"Exit light..."

Thanks for the screenshot - having a few computer issues.
BTW, Ty played guitar too - we of course still have his guitars, including his really good one, his plug-in acoustic Takamine. Might link a video of him playing one of these days if i get some time to set it up.

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said

I had never heard of UNOH until this year.

My son just moved up to Boy Scouts and I was at the first campout where he gets to know the older boys. I'm nervous, he's about ready to spend a lot of time with these kids, including campouts. I'm sizing all of them up. The Scout leader is a hardass and everyone stays in line, but it's the character of the other kids that sets the culture of the group.

After a full 24 hours with them, it was clear that one kid was the kinda kid I would want my son to emulate. He was handy, helpful and polite. Good with the younger kids. He was the main cook for the group. As affable as they come. But he was aging out of Scouts and about ready to go to college. I asked him where he was going and what he was going to do. I'm not a car guy, but he then spent an hour telling me about UNOH's diesel mechanics program, how much he loved diesel engines and his dream to live on his parents farm and fix trucks for a living. He smiled from ear to ear. Presumably he is at UNOH now.

Good kid who had a passion I knew nothing about but loved it so much it was engaging. The story of Tyler reminded me of that encounter and the impact it left me with. UNOH must have a great program that attracts good kids.

Thank you for your story - your description of that young man echoes everything that Ty was, and wanted to do.

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said

Cheers to Tyler! I'll be searching for the logo and raising a cold one in his honor. Thanks for sharing and Go Hokies!

Toasting your son as I type. May he rest in peace and throw a little luck our way in taking down Tenn

"The Big Ten is always using excuses to cancel games with us. First Wisconsin. Then Wisconsin. After that, Wisconsin. The subsequent cancellation with Wisconsin comes to mind too. Now Penn State. What's next? Wisconsin?" -HorseOnATreadmill

Because of this, we've already won. No matter the outcome of the game.

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

We put the K in Kwality

I will for sure give a toast in memory of your son and say a quick prayer when I spot that logo. Thanks for sharing such a deep and personal story!

I'll raise a beer in each hand for Tyler.... Go Hokies!

Bleeding burnt orange and chicago maroon

Damn onion-cutting ninjas. Great gestures by that school.

A decade on TKP and it's been time well spent.

So sorry for your loss. May the Lord continue to comfort you, and may the Hokies win this one for Tyler!

Hokie in West Africa...sadly, I can't jump up and down hard enough for it to be felt in Lane

Holy Not How I Imagined You Batman! Hokietopher you are older, wiser and more handsome than I gave you credit for in my mind. Love the stache.

Respects again for Tyler. Honestly it's stories like this and all the shootings at schools that make me glad my girl is going to school here in China. Seems so weird to say that, but bullying here is almost non-existent and no guns whatsoever. Tyler though, is a champion having gone through that. I love hearing stories of quiet heroics. That's a real man.

I look at my daughter and sometimes I have the fears of losing her in my mind, and still I cannot imagine what you and your family have had to go through. It's soul crushing.

I will be looking for the UNOH logo in every screenshot during the game, but no matter the Hokies win or lose bud, Tyler is the true champion that day.

Wow - thanks for the compliments, both for me and for Tyler.
Unfortunately, my mental image of you is that you are actually the guy in your avatar.......

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said

close enough. that's my grandfather. VT class of 1939. We look pretty similar, especially as we age.

Ok Gotcha - very cool to honor him using him as your avatar.

But can you rock the bowtie as well as him?

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said

I wish. I got nothing on my grandpa. he had a goofy rico suave thing going on

Thank you so much for that. And (even though I already believed we were going to win) I believe it even more now. For Tyler. All day, all the way.

I recall reading your posts on TKP over the loss of your son. To post all that requires great strength.

I will remember your son this weekend and especially at Bristol. Go Hokies.

Thanks for sharing and I'll toast one for Tyler. We lost our four month old almost nine years ago and as your family knows you never get over it, just learn to live with it.

"War was always here. Before man was, war waited for him. The ultimate trade awaiting its ultimate practitioner.”~~Judge Holden

I'll be raising one for you as well.

Now finish up them taters; I'm gonna go fondle my sweaters.

Thanks Ranger - I remember you kind words of encouragement when this first happened to us. Will toast one myself for your lost child as well.

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said

I'm not a parent, but as an uncle I wish I could hug both of you right now. Stay strong and know that we're here for you.

"We were at the pinnacle, and we did it for years," Foster says. He pauses, nods, takes a deep breath. "And I did it with the best guy in the business."

Wow. Thanks for sharing that story. Can't even begin to imagine what your family has been through. I'll be raising one for Tyler.

Now finish up them taters; I'm gonna go fondle my sweaters.

So sorry for your loss. I'm a father of 3 and I can't imagine what your family has went through. Your in our thoughts and prayers. I'll hoist my first beer and my victory beer for Tyler.

a beverage will be raised for UNOH and your son on my end

I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a personal memory. Your son really did embody the values of Virginia Tech; you should be very proud.

The Dude Abides

We certainly are.......thank you, friend.

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said

Wow what an amzing story. Thank you for sharing your story and I have no doubt Tyler will be watch VT whoop up on TENN.

Pour some Beer on it

Thanks for sharing your story, and now UNOH will have a different meaning for those who've read this thread, particularly when we see it on Battle of Bristol game day.

Lots of thoughts and prayers to your family. The feels from unexpected reminders of lost loved ones........

HokieObsession

God gave me opportunities, but I didn't take them.....regret that now.....no kids of my own, but two step-kids, two step-grandsons and a step-granddaughter announced yesterday due to arrive in March. Even though the ex and I divorced years ago, and I've missed a lot of participation in their lives, I'm blessed to still be included as part of the family..... can't imagine the pain of losing any of them. Stepson and I had very different personalities, so weren't really close, but yesterday he told me I was always consistent, he always knew I loved him, and that he learned a lot more from me than he ever did from his dad (and his dad is a great guy that I proudly call friend).....you can't imagine how much that means to me!

Anyway, my point is, I've been down on myself lately (job, finances, love-life, distant aging parents, etc), and your post helped remind me how truly blessed I am. Your son sounds like he was a great guy, I'm sure thanks to you and your wife. I will include y'all in my prayers tonight, and ask for peace and joy for your family.

gtofever

Thanks, brother.......never get too down on yourself (we all make mistakes), and never be too high on yourself (even on our best days we need to stay humble). As with most things in life, The Truth is always somewhere in the middle........

My wife takes the kids and leaves the house while I watch my Hokie games.........nuff said